Judul Novel : Sakit setengah jiwa.
Penulis : Endang Rukmana. Lahir di daerah urban Jakarta pada 15 Mei 1984. Menempuh pendidikan di SDN Rawa Bebek 1 Bekasi, SLTP Barata Jakarta Timur, MTsN Model Padarincang, SMAN 1 Serang, dan kini melanjutkan studi pada jurusan Ilmu Sejarah UI.
Cover novel : warna hijau daun, gambar animasi seorang pria botak sedang bergelayut pada sebuah pohon pisang, seperti di sebuah hutan, dan pria tersebut tampak sumringah sekaligus terkejut.
Penyunting : Windy Ariestanty
Desain sampul dan tata letak : Jeffri Fernando
Penerbit : Gagas Media. Jl Sultan Iskandar Muda no 100 A-B, lantai 2, Kebayoran Lama, Jakarta Selatan, 12420.
Distributor tunggal : Agromedia Pustaka, Bintaro Jaya Sektor IX, Jl Rajawali IV blok HDX no 3, Tangerang, 15226.
Cetakan pertama : Mei 2006.
Setting cerita : Kanekes, sebuah nama tempat di Banten Selatan, di antara gugusan pegunungan Kendeng dimana tempat orang Baduy bermukim.
Alur cerita : maju.
Jenis cerita : komedi petualangan.
Tema cerita : seorang remaja pria bernama Bobby melakukan sebuah perjalanan panjang yang penuh dengan petualangan untuk mencari jati diri dan cinta sejatinya.
Tokoh utama : bernama Bobby van Kendeng, seorang mahasiswa botak, playboy, dan mempunyai kebiasaan latah menyebut "kutil" dikarenakan "tertular" oleh kebiasaan pengurus rumahnya yang latah dengan kata "kutil".
Tokoh-tokoh lain :
1. Kakek Bijak : seorang kakek gaul dan lucu yang tak berwujud alias gaib, yang selalu mengirim pesan sms pada Bobby, yang notabene adalah cucunya. Beliau-lah yang menyarankan Bobby untuk memulai perjalanan petualangan ke tanah Baduy, di pegunungan Kendeng, untuk menenmukan Sasaka Domas, dimana letak ari-ari Bobby dikubur.
2. Monda : kekasih Bobby yang hitam manis, manja dan suka dengan hal-hal berbau romantis. Monda berasal dari keluarga berada.
3. Bi Minah dan Mang Dadang: sepasang suami-istri yang bekerja sebagai pembantu rumah tangga yang mengabdi pada keluarga Bobby sejak Bobby belum lahir, sehingga sudah seperti keluarga sendiri.
4. Pahotan Franto Simanjutak: anak kelahiran Medan, sahabat Bobby yang paling dekat di jurusan Ilmu Komunikasi, dan selalu berbicara menggunakan logat Batak.
5. Om Rys Revolta : adik dari Ayah Bobby, bekerja sebagai wartawan. Beliau juga ikut serta dalam perjalanan ekspedisi Bobby.
6. Pak Naisbah : salah seorang kenalan om Rys yang kemudian menyediakan tempat tinggal selama Bobby dan rombongan melakukan expedisi, sebelum masuk pedalaman hutan Sasaka Domas. Pria tua yang ramah, dan berbicara menggunakan bahasa Sunda kasar logat Baduy.
7. Susi : gadis manis, sangat manja, dan juga berasal dari keluarga berada, akan tetapi sedikit nakal. Ia sangat suka pada Bobby, hingga rela dijadikan pacar kedua. Mereka bertemu dalam perjalanan ekspedisi.
8. Narto Singodimejo alias Tole : sahabat Bobby yang juga ikut dalam ekspedisi, orang Brebes, mahasiswa tahun pertama jurusan Arkeologi. Lucu dan tak kenal malu. Selalu berbicara dengan logat medok Jawa.
9. Virginia : sahabat Bobby yang juga ikut dalam ekspedisi, mahasiswi Geografi, perempuan tangguh.
10. Retno : sahabat Bobby yang juga ikut dalam ekspedisi, mahasisiwi Psikologi, juga merupakan perempuan tangguh.
Akhir cerita : Bobby berhasil menemukan fakta bahwa setiap perkataan Kakek Bijak itu benar adanya, dan tanpa disangka ternyata cinta sejati Bobby yang konon akan ditemukan di arah selatan, ternyata adalah Monda, kekasihnya selama ini yang selalu setia menemani, termasuk dalam perjalanan ekspedisi Bobby. Hal tersebut dikarenakan ternyata Monda lahir di pantai selatan lalu kemudian keluarganya hijrah ke Jakarta.
Rabu, 30 Desember 2009
Kamis, 12 November 2009
TUGAS B.I
"Ibu....Ibu....sudahlah Bu, berhentilah menangis....nanti Ibu sakit, Ibu sudah tidak makan seharian ini", pintaku pada Ibu yang tak henti-hentinya menangisi pengakuan Bapak. Bapak begitu tega terhadap Ibu. Jahat. Kejam. Tak kusangka Bapak yang selama ini kubanggakan sampai hati menyayat hati Ibundaku tercinta. Aku sebagai anak laki-laki tunggal tak kuasa melihat penderitaan Ibu. Begitu mudahnya Bapak lari ke pelukan wanita lain, yang bahkan tak pantas untuk disebut seorang wanita karena tanpa iba menyabotase kebahagiaan keluargaku. Meski Ibu mencoba bertahan dan berjuang sekuat tenaga seorang diri supaya "rumah" kami tak goyah, Bapak tetap bersikukuh dan tanpa belas kasih ingin meninggalkan Ibu. Ingin rasanya kuhantam semua, malu rasanya mempunyai Bapak seperti dia, dan betapa ingin kuseret perempuan itu untuk bersimpuh berlutut meminta maaf di hadapan Ibu. Sayangnya, kelembutan dan ketulusan hat Ibu tak mengijinkanku tuk nodai langkahku. "Sudahlah nak, ada Allah yang Maha Segala. Ibu yakin, jika Ibu dapat ikhlas menerima semua cobaan ini maka Allah akan mengabulkan doa-doa Ibu. Balasan yang Allah berikan nanti akan jauh lebih dahsyat dari apa yang kamu atau manusia manapun mampu lakukan", nasehat bijak Ibu padaku. Dalam hati kusimpan dendam yang teramat dalam. Aku hanyalah seorang bocah lelaki yang begitu mencintai sang Bunda, karena Ia-lah satu-satunya yang kupunya di dunia fana ini.
Beberapa tahun berlalu sejak peristiwa itu, dan kami tak pernah dan tak ingin lagi mendengar apapun tentang Bapak. Kami tak peduli. Aku hanya tinggal berdua bersama Ibu disebuah rumah kontrakan yang amat sempit, namun Ibu selalu mengajariku untuk tetap dan terus bersyukur pada Allah Sang Maha Pencipta, maka akan terasa dan bertambah nikmatNya. Aku tetap melanjutkan pendidikanku dengan jerih payah Ibu yang bekerja sebagai Pengajar disebuah Perguruan Tinggi Negeri. Tak banyak memang. Tetapi seakan pantang menyerah, Ibu bekerja keras siang dan malam, mencari pemasukan tambahan dari mengajar di tempat lain. Tak tega rasanya. Sungguh tak tega. Betapa besarnya kasih sayang Ibu yang begitu tulus dan tanpa pamrih hanya untukku seorang. Maka kuputuskan untuk bekerja paruh waktu untuk meringankan beban Ibu. "Sudahlah nak, jangan kau pikirkan masalah itu, insya Allah Ibumu ini masih mampu dan alhamdulillah Allah memberi Ibu keahlian untuk dapat membesarkanmu seorang diri. Fokuslah pada pendidikanmu dan jadilah kamu orang yang hebat yang akan Ibu banggakan pada seantero dunia", pinta Ibu padaku. Kuberi pengertian pada Ibu betapa sungguh ingin aku meringankan bebannya serta cita-cita untuk dapat membahagiakannya. Pada akhirnya Ibu pun meberiku restu dengan beruraian airmata. Kulakukan semampuku tanpa berbekal ijasah. Dan alhamdulillah aku dapat bekerja paruh waktu di sebuah restoran Eropa sebagai pelayan, karena mereka menganggap aku mempunyai bekal bahasa Inggris yang cukup baik.
"Nak....nak....Ibu membawa kabar gembira untuk menyambut kelulusanmu!" teriak Ibu padaku sambil memelukku erat. "Ada apa Bu?", tanyaku penuh dengan keheranan, karena belum pernah kumelihat Ibu segirang itu. "Kita akan ke Eropa sayang! Ibu diberi kepercayaan untuk mengajar Bahasa Indonesia disebuah Kedutaan asing!", jawab Ibu. Astaga! Subhanallah! Allahu Akbar! Ya Allah.......Engkau sungguh luar biasa! Inikah awal dari hadiah atas kesabaran dan ketulusan hati Ibu selama ini? Akupun jatuh bersujud tak henti-hentinya mengucap syukur pada Allah Sang Kuasa alam semesta, dan kami berdua pun menangis bahagia berpelukan sambil tak henti-hentinya menyebut asma Allah.
Hari yang telah dinanti-nati pun tiba. Kami meninggalkan tanah air Indonesia, dan akupun akan mendapat sekolah gratis disana sebagai fasilitas pekerjaan Ibu. Begitu turun dari pesawat, sudah ada sekelompok orang asing berpakaian jas lengkap dan rapi memegang papan nama yang bertuliskan nama Ibuku. Kami pun menghampiri mereka dan betapa kagetnya kami ketika mereka menyapa menggunakan Bahasa Indonesia. Lucu. Senang. Bangga. Bahkan kami dibuat lebih tercengang lagi ketika melihat mobil jemputan Jaguar limited edition yang akan senantiasa setia mengantar jemput aku dan Ibu kemanapun kami pergi. Tak pernah sebelumnya aku dan Ibu merasakan ini. Didalam mobil aku tak bisa berhenti tersenyum dan tak henti-hentinya mengucap syukur pada Allah SWT yang begitu Maha Kaya akan segala. Sejenak terbesit pikiran tentang Bapak, dalam hati ku berkata "Oh Bapak yang malang, betapa menyesalnya dirimu telah meninggalkan seorang wanita setia yang begitu mulia dan hebat! Dan kau tak tau sungguh apa yang telah kau lewatkan". Ku hanya menatap Ibu yang sedang berbincang dengan mereka, penuh dengan rasa bangga yang tak ternilai dan oh sungguh, betapa cinta dan sayangnya aku pada Ibu....Ibundaku tak akan pernah tergantikan oleh apapun, bahkan emas, permata, berlian mulia semahal apapun takkan mampu menandingi kilau dan sinarnya oh Ibu.......
Beberapa tahun berlalu sejak peristiwa itu, dan kami tak pernah dan tak ingin lagi mendengar apapun tentang Bapak. Kami tak peduli. Aku hanya tinggal berdua bersama Ibu disebuah rumah kontrakan yang amat sempit, namun Ibu selalu mengajariku untuk tetap dan terus bersyukur pada Allah Sang Maha Pencipta, maka akan terasa dan bertambah nikmatNya. Aku tetap melanjutkan pendidikanku dengan jerih payah Ibu yang bekerja sebagai Pengajar disebuah Perguruan Tinggi Negeri. Tak banyak memang. Tetapi seakan pantang menyerah, Ibu bekerja keras siang dan malam, mencari pemasukan tambahan dari mengajar di tempat lain. Tak tega rasanya. Sungguh tak tega. Betapa besarnya kasih sayang Ibu yang begitu tulus dan tanpa pamrih hanya untukku seorang. Maka kuputuskan untuk bekerja paruh waktu untuk meringankan beban Ibu. "Sudahlah nak, jangan kau pikirkan masalah itu, insya Allah Ibumu ini masih mampu dan alhamdulillah Allah memberi Ibu keahlian untuk dapat membesarkanmu seorang diri. Fokuslah pada pendidikanmu dan jadilah kamu orang yang hebat yang akan Ibu banggakan pada seantero dunia", pinta Ibu padaku. Kuberi pengertian pada Ibu betapa sungguh ingin aku meringankan bebannya serta cita-cita untuk dapat membahagiakannya. Pada akhirnya Ibu pun meberiku restu dengan beruraian airmata. Kulakukan semampuku tanpa berbekal ijasah. Dan alhamdulillah aku dapat bekerja paruh waktu di sebuah restoran Eropa sebagai pelayan, karena mereka menganggap aku mempunyai bekal bahasa Inggris yang cukup baik.
"Nak....nak....Ibu membawa kabar gembira untuk menyambut kelulusanmu!" teriak Ibu padaku sambil memelukku erat. "Ada apa Bu?", tanyaku penuh dengan keheranan, karena belum pernah kumelihat Ibu segirang itu. "Kita akan ke Eropa sayang! Ibu diberi kepercayaan untuk mengajar Bahasa Indonesia disebuah Kedutaan asing!", jawab Ibu. Astaga! Subhanallah! Allahu Akbar! Ya Allah.......Engkau sungguh luar biasa! Inikah awal dari hadiah atas kesabaran dan ketulusan hati Ibu selama ini? Akupun jatuh bersujud tak henti-hentinya mengucap syukur pada Allah Sang Kuasa alam semesta, dan kami berdua pun menangis bahagia berpelukan sambil tak henti-hentinya menyebut asma Allah.
Hari yang telah dinanti-nati pun tiba. Kami meninggalkan tanah air Indonesia, dan akupun akan mendapat sekolah gratis disana sebagai fasilitas pekerjaan Ibu. Begitu turun dari pesawat, sudah ada sekelompok orang asing berpakaian jas lengkap dan rapi memegang papan nama yang bertuliskan nama Ibuku. Kami pun menghampiri mereka dan betapa kagetnya kami ketika mereka menyapa menggunakan Bahasa Indonesia. Lucu. Senang. Bangga. Bahkan kami dibuat lebih tercengang lagi ketika melihat mobil jemputan Jaguar limited edition yang akan senantiasa setia mengantar jemput aku dan Ibu kemanapun kami pergi. Tak pernah sebelumnya aku dan Ibu merasakan ini. Didalam mobil aku tak bisa berhenti tersenyum dan tak henti-hentinya mengucap syukur pada Allah SWT yang begitu Maha Kaya akan segala. Sejenak terbesit pikiran tentang Bapak, dalam hati ku berkata "Oh Bapak yang malang, betapa menyesalnya dirimu telah meninggalkan seorang wanita setia yang begitu mulia dan hebat! Dan kau tak tau sungguh apa yang telah kau lewatkan". Ku hanya menatap Ibu yang sedang berbincang dengan mereka, penuh dengan rasa bangga yang tak ternilai dan oh sungguh, betapa cinta dan sayangnya aku pada Ibu....Ibundaku tak akan pernah tergantikan oleh apapun, bahkan emas, permata, berlian mulia semahal apapun takkan mampu menandingi kilau dan sinarnya oh Ibu.......
Senin, 09 November 2009
BACKSTREET FROM PARENTS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP
What is backstreet in this case? Backstreet (relationship) is an action of one person or a group of people who does or do something they like or want behind some people who should know about it. We can find millions of cases like this these days. I agree that backstreet from parents is not a relationship. First of all, let's go over the reasons behind backstreet relationship itself. People are free and have their rights to bring their own arguments. People do backstreet because they don't want some or certain people to know, they're hiding, in this case we're talking about hiding from parents. Most cases happen to teenagers. They said they're scared or worried if their parents disapprove their relationship and will force them to break up. But I think, backstreet's no good for the girls. Girls need more safety than boys, and boys are meant to be the ones who protect girls. If your parents have no idea about your relationship, you have no safety guaranteed out there. Girls should think more before going through a backstreet relationship. I believe that starting a relationship is based on love, so if you love him or her, show it! Show it by not hiding him or her, show that you're proud and want people to know who your partner is. That's a way of showing respect and love towards your partner. If you choose to hide him or her, and your whole relationship from your parents, your partner could be disappointed and perhaps get offended, and also will start thinking why? Aren't I good enough to show or be introduced to your parents? Am I embarassing? Don't you want a serious relationship? Do you just want to play around with me? Am I ugly?
Girls, don't just say yes to backstreet. Be more concern about yourself, you deserve to be respected and admitted to parents and public. Don't let your boyfriend hide you for whatever reason. If he insists then you need to be suspicious. Think about your safety as a girl, your fragile heart, the length of your relationship, etc. You'd feel more secure if your parents knew, everything would be under control and your boyfriend will take some responsibility as well. Don't scare yourself by your own thoughts if you don't get their permission or if they won't like your boyfriend. Now both parents play important role if everybody want to be happy and if they want everything to work out well. Children need to confront their parents and explain why they want to start the relationship and also introduce their partner. Now boys and girls, first impression is very important, so it's essential to give your best look and impress your partner's parents by showing the right gesture and attitude. find out what they like and what they're like. As for parents, they need to listen to their children and respect their wish as grown ups. Shouldn't be too judgemental on the introduction day, it's best to judge or to see along the journey, whether they bring positive values to eachother or not. Then always open a heart to heart discussion between parents and children to create a good communication and avoid misunderstanding. That way parents can always protect their children, while children can also feel secure.
Girls, don't just say yes to backstreet. Be more concern about yourself, you deserve to be respected and admitted to parents and public. Don't let your boyfriend hide you for whatever reason. If he insists then you need to be suspicious. Think about your safety as a girl, your fragile heart, the length of your relationship, etc. You'd feel more secure if your parents knew, everything would be under control and your boyfriend will take some responsibility as well. Don't scare yourself by your own thoughts if you don't get their permission or if they won't like your boyfriend. Now both parents play important role if everybody want to be happy and if they want everything to work out well. Children need to confront their parents and explain why they want to start the relationship and also introduce their partner. Now boys and girls, first impression is very important, so it's essential to give your best look and impress your partner's parents by showing the right gesture and attitude. find out what they like and what they're like. As for parents, they need to listen to their children and respect their wish as grown ups. Shouldn't be too judgemental on the introduction day, it's best to judge or to see along the journey, whether they bring positive values to eachother or not. Then always open a heart to heart discussion between parents and children to create a good communication and avoid misunderstanding. That way parents can always protect their children, while children can also feel secure.
Jumat, 06 November 2009
ARRANGE MARRIAGE RESULTS IN UNHAPPY MARRIAGE
What is arrange marriage? Arrange marriage is when you get married to someone who has been selected by your parents. You might've known them before or they could be a complete stranger. Let's take a look at some reasons of why arrange marriage still happen to some people. Why do some parents arrange their children's marriage? Sometimes they don't trust their children's choice, they have the opposite taste from their children's, they think that arrange marriage could guarantee their children's happiness, wealth and prosperity, because normally the bride or groom to be's background have been observed before. Now in this case, love isn't the priority, as the elders always say "You can't live just with love! You need money to survive!". Well......we can't blame parents who want their children to be settled, no need to worry about where they're going to live, what they're going to ride, how much they're going to eat, how much cash they're going to have in their wallet (together with the ATM and credit cards), and also which school their grandchildren will go to, without having to worry if any of them gets sick and needs to be taken care off at he hospital.
Most of our society no longer approve of arrange marriage, including myself. Since this is a modern era, I'm sure that the next generations are smarter and wiser in selecting their companion in life, so there's no need for parents to interfere in this matter. Unless they always want to get blamed whenever the couple argue, fight, or if there was something wrong with the marriage.
In some cases, arrange marriage results in unhappy marriage. However, others find fairytales eventually because love has grown along the way. It depends on the magnet, chemistry, and how far or deep they can be attracted to eachother. I guess as long as they open their heart and mind to eachother, and if they're able to click into eachother's characters, nothing's impossible to happen. The most common problem that we find out of arrange marriage is that either one or perhaps both already or still in love with someone else whom they were forced to leave.
As for me personally, I wouldn't want to arrange my children's marriage. When they decide to get married, it means they're mature enough, prepared, know exactly what they're about to go through, with the following consequences, and also there's no more doubt and they must feel completely certain of their partner. Remembering marriage is a great, tough decision, and it's a big step to the next chapter. Besides, I wouldn't want to be blamed for any flaws along the journey. They need to be responsible for their own choice and decision.
Most of our society no longer approve of arrange marriage, including myself. Since this is a modern era, I'm sure that the next generations are smarter and wiser in selecting their companion in life, so there's no need for parents to interfere in this matter. Unless they always want to get blamed whenever the couple argue, fight, or if there was something wrong with the marriage.
In some cases, arrange marriage results in unhappy marriage. However, others find fairytales eventually because love has grown along the way. It depends on the magnet, chemistry, and how far or deep they can be attracted to eachother. I guess as long as they open their heart and mind to eachother, and if they're able to click into eachother's characters, nothing's impossible to happen. The most common problem that we find out of arrange marriage is that either one or perhaps both already or still in love with someone else whom they were forced to leave.
As for me personally, I wouldn't want to arrange my children's marriage. When they decide to get married, it means they're mature enough, prepared, know exactly what they're about to go through, with the following consequences, and also there's no more doubt and they must feel completely certain of their partner. Remembering marriage is a great, tough decision, and it's a big step to the next chapter. Besides, I wouldn't want to be blamed for any flaws along the journey. They need to be responsible for their own choice and decision.
Minggu, 01 November 2009
POLYGAMY IS DEFINETELY NOT A GOOD CHOICE FOR EVERYONE
What is polygamy? Polygamy is a belief or an action of one man married to more than one woman. Is a good choice? ABSOLUTELY, DEFINETELY NOT!!!!! I strongly (million times) disagree and disapprove polygamy. Why don´t I think it´s a good choice? First of all, as far as I know (including myself), people (especially women) get married using their feelings, following what their hearts say. If, in the middle of their journey is interrupted by another woman or other women, let´s say......saints can also turn into assassins, and that wouldn´t be good for their life value, children, and themselves as human being.
Those who agree and approve of it, have their rights and own reasons, and we should respect that. But in my opinion personally, also based on most facts around us, polygamy hurts too much and delivers too much damage for women. When you get married to someone, you expect to love eachother only and spend the rest of your life together with your partner, raise kids together, and hold on to eachotherś vowls till death do you apart. But when all those dreams are killed by the fact that your husband wants to get married again, women can destroy the world. And that is not a good impact at all. Polygamy will force women to share their husband with somebody else whether they like it or not, will force children to accept not to be able to be with their father all the time, etc. Things will entirely change. Children can no longer ask their father to accompany them anytime they want, women will feel flamable jealousy all the time, everybody in the family could be under great pressure which will lead to serious stress, and that´s a huge deal because it will affect the rest of their lives (their set of mind, way of living, attitude, character changing, emotions, etc). I don´t see any pure, genuine heart or purpose in men who join the polygamy club. Their satisfaction in having more than one wife aqnd such no concern whatsoever toward their wife´s feeling, suffer, tears. They seem to always have excuses that they think are so nobel to help others that way. Letś just cut the crap out! Why do you have to marry them if your intention is purely just to help them? Pathetic and hypoctitical!!!
So, I´ve made it clear enough about my disagreement and disapproval against polygamy. I see no good or positive values at all in it, but only damage and disaster. I suggest to men who are interested in polygamy, don´t marry a woman who loves you truly with all her heart and soul, and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Instead, you shuld go for women who are just interested in your money and wouldn´t care less if you want to polygamy her as long as the money doesn´t stop coming in her pocket. I believe those who already accept being polygamied, they also feel great pain and perhaps forced to accept it in different conditions and situations. Salute to them if they can live with that, but I feel sorry for them too, and that is somewhere where I wouldn´t want to be.
-THE END-
-TRULY GENUINE AND ORIGINAL (PIECE)-
Those who agree and approve of it, have their rights and own reasons, and we should respect that. But in my opinion personally, also based on most facts around us, polygamy hurts too much and delivers too much damage for women. When you get married to someone, you expect to love eachother only and spend the rest of your life together with your partner, raise kids together, and hold on to eachotherś vowls till death do you apart. But when all those dreams are killed by the fact that your husband wants to get married again, women can destroy the world. And that is not a good impact at all. Polygamy will force women to share their husband with somebody else whether they like it or not, will force children to accept not to be able to be with their father all the time, etc. Things will entirely change. Children can no longer ask their father to accompany them anytime they want, women will feel flamable jealousy all the time, everybody in the family could be under great pressure which will lead to serious stress, and that´s a huge deal because it will affect the rest of their lives (their set of mind, way of living, attitude, character changing, emotions, etc). I don´t see any pure, genuine heart or purpose in men who join the polygamy club. Their satisfaction in having more than one wife aqnd such no concern whatsoever toward their wife´s feeling, suffer, tears. They seem to always have excuses that they think are so nobel to help others that way. Letś just cut the crap out! Why do you have to marry them if your intention is purely just to help them? Pathetic and hypoctitical!!!
So, I´ve made it clear enough about my disagreement and disapproval against polygamy. I see no good or positive values at all in it, but only damage and disaster. I suggest to men who are interested in polygamy, don´t marry a woman who loves you truly with all her heart and soul, and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Instead, you shuld go for women who are just interested in your money and wouldn´t care less if you want to polygamy her as long as the money doesn´t stop coming in her pocket. I believe those who already accept being polygamied, they also feel great pain and perhaps forced to accept it in different conditions and situations. Salute to them if they can live with that, but I feel sorry for them too, and that is somewhere where I wouldn´t want to be.
-THE END-
-TRULY GENUINE AND ORIGINAL (PIECE)-
Maria Ozawa (Miyabi) is not positive for film industry in Indonesia
Who doesn´t know Miyabi (Maria Ozawa)? Everybody does. How come? What is she famous for? Is she a celebrity? A big star in Indonesia? Nope. She´s a Japanese porn star and started it in such an early age, 13. She has Canadian blood from her father, that´s what differ her from other Japanese porn stars, her gorgeous look and appealing body. She´s a high class porn star. How do we know? Well, sheś internationally known.
I strongly disagree that Miyabi could bring a positive impact or any positive impacts in Indonesian film industry. Why? As we know, she´s a porn star, not somebody who acts or stars in a general movie. She´s a seducer, temptation for men, her role is to provoke and indulge men´s desire by her sex appeal. Now what could happen if she appears in our film industry? Though the film producer who was about to hire her insisted on no-porn at all, our society are already shaking their heads off, showing their concern to young generations.
Some of the impacts Miyabi could bring to our local celebrities, first : they could be competing against eachother to reach success like Miyabi, and would place her as their role model. Not just to the local celebs, that is very possible to influence the younger generations who suppose to have healthy, descent, and positive minds. They can be ruined by these kind of things. It is also not impossible for naive youths to copy her style, her poses in shots, and worse : her path to reach success and wealth.
I suppose it wouldn´t matter if she visited Western countries such as Europe, etc, where there is more freedom and not many people are concern about these things. In fact, in some Western and non-Western countries have open porn industries, and in fact some of them are legal and have become the biggest country income, such as Thailand. I don´t want to sound hypocritical, our country does have many of those kind, but they are still hidden because of the Moslem majority in Indonesia, who uphold religious values in life. Eventually, the majority of people in Indonesia can´t accept her footprints on the land of Indonesia for whatever reason. So if she or the related parties insist(s) on continuing their plan or program, then it means they´re welcoming more matters to come in Indonesia. Then again, Miyabi should be concern about her own safety here, remembering we have some extreme fanatics who are willing to bomb those who they think choose opposite faiths or paths.
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-TRULY GENUINE AND ORIGINAL (PIECE)-
I strongly disagree that Miyabi could bring a positive impact or any positive impacts in Indonesian film industry. Why? As we know, she´s a porn star, not somebody who acts or stars in a general movie. She´s a seducer, temptation for men, her role is to provoke and indulge men´s desire by her sex appeal. Now what could happen if she appears in our film industry? Though the film producer who was about to hire her insisted on no-porn at all, our society are already shaking their heads off, showing their concern to young generations.
Some of the impacts Miyabi could bring to our local celebrities, first : they could be competing against eachother to reach success like Miyabi, and would place her as their role model. Not just to the local celebs, that is very possible to influence the younger generations who suppose to have healthy, descent, and positive minds. They can be ruined by these kind of things. It is also not impossible for naive youths to copy her style, her poses in shots, and worse : her path to reach success and wealth.
I suppose it wouldn´t matter if she visited Western countries such as Europe, etc, where there is more freedom and not many people are concern about these things. In fact, in some Western and non-Western countries have open porn industries, and in fact some of them are legal and have become the biggest country income, such as Thailand. I don´t want to sound hypocritical, our country does have many of those kind, but they are still hidden because of the Moslem majority in Indonesia, who uphold religious values in life. Eventually, the majority of people in Indonesia can´t accept her footprints on the land of Indonesia for whatever reason. So if she or the related parties insist(s) on continuing their plan or program, then it means they´re welcoming more matters to come in Indonesia. Then again, Miyabi should be concern about her own safety here, remembering we have some extreme fanatics who are willing to bomb those who they think choose opposite faiths or paths.
-THE END-
-TRULY GENUINE AND ORIGINAL (PIECE)-
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