What is backstreet in this case? Backstreet (relationship) is an action of one person or a group of people who does or do something they like or want behind some people who should know about it. We can find millions of cases like this these days. I agree that backstreet from parents is not a relationship. First of all, let's go over the reasons behind backstreet relationship itself. People are free and have their rights to bring their own arguments. People do backstreet because they don't want some or certain people to know, they're hiding, in this case we're talking about hiding from parents. Most cases happen to teenagers. They said they're scared or worried if their parents disapprove their relationship and will force them to break up. But I think, backstreet's no good for the girls. Girls need more safety than boys, and boys are meant to be the ones who protect girls. If your parents have no idea about your relationship, you have no safety guaranteed out there. Girls should think more before going through a backstreet relationship. I believe that starting a relationship is based on love, so if you love him or her, show it! Show it by not hiding him or her, show that you're proud and want people to know who your partner is. That's a way of showing respect and love towards your partner. If you choose to hide him or her, and your whole relationship from your parents, your partner could be disappointed and perhaps get offended, and also will start thinking why? Aren't I good enough to show or be introduced to your parents? Am I embarassing? Don't you want a serious relationship? Do you just want to play around with me? Am I ugly?
Girls, don't just say yes to backstreet. Be more concern about yourself, you deserve to be respected and admitted to parents and public. Don't let your boyfriend hide you for whatever reason. If he insists then you need to be suspicious. Think about your safety as a girl, your fragile heart, the length of your relationship, etc. You'd feel more secure if your parents knew, everything would be under control and your boyfriend will take some responsibility as well. Don't scare yourself by your own thoughts if you don't get their permission or if they won't like your boyfriend. Now both parents play important role if everybody want to be happy and if they want everything to work out well. Children need to confront their parents and explain why they want to start the relationship and also introduce their partner. Now boys and girls, first impression is very important, so it's essential to give your best look and impress your partner's parents by showing the right gesture and attitude. find out what they like and what they're like. As for parents, they need to listen to their children and respect their wish as grown ups. Shouldn't be too judgemental on the introduction day, it's best to judge or to see along the journey, whether they bring positive values to eachother or not. Then always open a heart to heart discussion between parents and children to create a good communication and avoid misunderstanding. That way parents can always protect their children, while children can also feel secure.
Girls, don't just say yes to backstreet. Be more concern about yourself, you deserve to be respected and admitted to parents and public. Don't let your boyfriend hide you for whatever reason. If he insists then you need to be suspicious. Think about your safety as a girl, your fragile heart, the length of your relationship, etc. You'd feel more secure if your parents knew, everything would be under control and your boyfriend will take some responsibility as well. Don't scare yourself by your own thoughts if you don't get their permission or if they won't like your boyfriend. Now both parents play important role if everybody want to be happy and if they want everything to work out well. Children need to confront their parents and explain why they want to start the relationship and also introduce their partner. Now boys and girls, first impression is very important, so it's essential to give your best look and impress your partner's parents by showing the right gesture and attitude. find out what they like and what they're like. As for parents, they need to listen to their children and respect their wish as grown ups. Shouldn't be too judgemental on the introduction day, it's best to judge or to see along the journey, whether they bring positive values to eachother or not. Then always open a heart to heart discussion between parents and children to create a good communication and avoid misunderstanding. That way parents can always protect their children, while children can also feel secure.
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