What is polygamy? Polygamy is a belief or an action of one man married to more than one woman. Is a good choice? ABSOLUTELY, DEFINETELY NOT!!!!! I strongly (million times) disagree and disapprove polygamy. Why don´t I think it´s a good choice? First of all, as far as I know (including myself), people (especially women) get married using their feelings, following what their hearts say. If, in the middle of their journey is interrupted by another woman or other women, let´s say......saints can also turn into assassins, and that wouldn´t be good for their life value, children, and themselves as human being.
Those who agree and approve of it, have their rights and own reasons, and we should respect that. But in my opinion personally, also based on most facts around us, polygamy hurts too much and delivers too much damage for women. When you get married to someone, you expect to love eachother only and spend the rest of your life together with your partner, raise kids together, and hold on to eachotherś vowls till death do you apart. But when all those dreams are killed by the fact that your husband wants to get married again, women can destroy the world. And that is not a good impact at all. Polygamy will force women to share their husband with somebody else whether they like it or not, will force children to accept not to be able to be with their father all the time, etc. Things will entirely change. Children can no longer ask their father to accompany them anytime they want, women will feel flamable jealousy all the time, everybody in the family could be under great pressure which will lead to serious stress, and that´s a huge deal because it will affect the rest of their lives (their set of mind, way of living, attitude, character changing, emotions, etc). I don´t see any pure, genuine heart or purpose in men who join the polygamy club. Their satisfaction in having more than one wife aqnd such no concern whatsoever toward their wife´s feeling, suffer, tears. They seem to always have excuses that they think are so nobel to help others that way. Letś just cut the crap out! Why do you have to marry them if your intention is purely just to help them? Pathetic and hypoctitical!!!
So, I´ve made it clear enough about my disagreement and disapproval against polygamy. I see no good or positive values at all in it, but only damage and disaster. I suggest to men who are interested in polygamy, don´t marry a woman who loves you truly with all her heart and soul, and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Instead, you shuld go for women who are just interested in your money and wouldn´t care less if you want to polygamy her as long as the money doesn´t stop coming in her pocket. I believe those who already accept being polygamied, they also feel great pain and perhaps forced to accept it in different conditions and situations. Salute to them if they can live with that, but I feel sorry for them too, and that is somewhere where I wouldn´t want to be.
-THE END-
-TRULY GENUINE AND ORIGINAL (PIECE)-
Those who agree and approve of it, have their rights and own reasons, and we should respect that. But in my opinion personally, also based on most facts around us, polygamy hurts too much and delivers too much damage for women. When you get married to someone, you expect to love eachother only and spend the rest of your life together with your partner, raise kids together, and hold on to eachotherś vowls till death do you apart. But when all those dreams are killed by the fact that your husband wants to get married again, women can destroy the world. And that is not a good impact at all. Polygamy will force women to share their husband with somebody else whether they like it or not, will force children to accept not to be able to be with their father all the time, etc. Things will entirely change. Children can no longer ask their father to accompany them anytime they want, women will feel flamable jealousy all the time, everybody in the family could be under great pressure which will lead to serious stress, and that´s a huge deal because it will affect the rest of their lives (their set of mind, way of living, attitude, character changing, emotions, etc). I don´t see any pure, genuine heart or purpose in men who join the polygamy club. Their satisfaction in having more than one wife aqnd such no concern whatsoever toward their wife´s feeling, suffer, tears. They seem to always have excuses that they think are so nobel to help others that way. Letś just cut the crap out! Why do you have to marry them if your intention is purely just to help them? Pathetic and hypoctitical!!!
So, I´ve made it clear enough about my disagreement and disapproval against polygamy. I see no good or positive values at all in it, but only damage and disaster. I suggest to men who are interested in polygamy, don´t marry a woman who loves you truly with all her heart and soul, and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Instead, you shuld go for women who are just interested in your money and wouldn´t care less if you want to polygamy her as long as the money doesn´t stop coming in her pocket. I believe those who already accept being polygamied, they also feel great pain and perhaps forced to accept it in different conditions and situations. Salute to them if they can live with that, but I feel sorry for them too, and that is somewhere where I wouldn´t want to be.
-THE END-
-TRULY GENUINE AND ORIGINAL (PIECE)-
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